Cognition:
eruption of enragement of chlid ( runs amuck)
time is infected:
often happened in 4 chlid age first year
form of behaviour:
* weeps
* screams
* throws goods
* makes stiff body
* beats
* rolls about in floor
* do not want to bolt from certain place
becomes habit if chlid is knowing that by the way of that is its(the desire will be fulfilled
Temper Tantrum is formed in kondisional.
condition causing temper tantrum to become habit:
1. balita experiencing pain for so long
2. Un-consistency of old fellow in applying discipline at its(the children
3. position of old fellow is tending to criticizes and too fussy
4. Children experiencing backwardness of mental and experiencing resistance in development to speak at the time of they to fail lays open its(the intention at area.
Example of case:
child of becoming often angry because the mother always by forcing orders chlid to urinate when s(he is besotted played.
Enragement which initially arisings from chlid stopped from activity to play at it, finally changes over at situation to go to bathroom can get back up chlid.
Handling
1. avoids abundant demarcation to chlid freedom
2. avoids abundant claim
3. avoids vesting of external duty of chlid ability
4. doesn't act is arbitrary
5. not too holds firmly stiff and hard positions in mothering and educates chlid
6. acts consistency or ajeg, but remain to loving of darling: keajegan enables child of learning from its(the experiences. But this doesn't mean all something having to takes place routine without exemption.
Any way, exlusion of what which have been specified may just is done along the length of that thing required and is not done for the shake of following old fellow mood as of eye.
position of Old fellow when chlid is runing amuck:
calm
is not fished to fulminate
consistency and apprehensive
As possible disregards scene to run amuck tsb, so that child of realizing that s(he cannot obtain attention with the enragement. Chlid must learn that by runing amuck s(he will not get does s(he wish.
Doesn't once in a while tries argument with child of at the time of s(he on the rampage.
a few moments after fury ends or alleviates is when which good to telling that its way that is wrong and cannot be received. ** Above that is of all, it is important to know that, in certain limits, runs amuck is fair something happened at children.**
Faces Tantrum Small si
( 3 Determining First Year)
As a stripper, be better if you sees trend of tantrum at child of as healthy expression. But sometimes old fellow kewalahan faces Tantrum small si. Eliminates tantrum 100 % of course non work easy.
some minimization ways of enragement to of small si:
( Tries applies this way according to situation, and ensures that people who to assist you to take care of small si applies the same way with you)
Tries peace
Your Panicity faces tantrum small si menyulut its(the enragement will. Sees You cannot have a command over, chlid would be panic and difficult to control x'self also. Small si requires figure which can catching of calmness to control situation, because its(the limitation having a command over in this age. He also requires certainty that in situation anything you still loving it.
Keeps in mind its(the cause
Tries writes down in your agenda, is penyulut enragement of small si. Sometimes tantrum is caused [by] too chlid fatigue, peckish, or too much stimulation. If this cause of his(its, tries avoids this situation. Other possibility, tantrum small si only emerges if s(he is brought to supermarket. If it does, limits departure to supermarket with
brings small si.
Talks smoothly but settled
If You screamed hence small si will reciprocate with rallying call which more excitement. But if you can talk with smooth intonation but stable isotope, this thing will assist small si overcomes x'self. Sometimes because too smooth voiced which you to say, small si cannot hear. This thing exactly profits, because usually s(he will be kept quiet concentrates on does you say.
Removes desire to apply penalization of physical
Tantrum small si sometimes makes sulky old fellow, so that subconsciously old fellow brings to justice physical like beating or pinchs that small si kept quiet. This thing is forerunner that you also has flew off the handle x'self.
What asking for small si learnt controls x'self, if his own old fellow unable to control ownself?
Doesn't debate
Invites small si debated during its(the enragement bursting of no use. At the moment hopeable small si thought rational. Bes awaiting finite of s(he has can apply logic to think it returns, has just invited s(he to discuse.
Takes care of chlid from fatal possibility
Sometimes small si many using movement to beat or kicks. If this thing was not taken heed able to fatal of their/his self, or people in vinicity. Tries invites chlid to place which more safe, for example lulling s(he is in bed, or fastened safety rope if s(he to run amuck in its(the cart. Otherwise possibly,
tries to hold, or embraces it to avoid undesirable things. Besides preventing fatal possibility, by holding or embraces, small si feels you to assist it is uniting ‘ part '
from x'self which has ‘ asunders'. Tightly embrace also assists meluruhkan enragement, good for small si and also you.
Tunjukan empathy
Tunjukan that you understands feeling of small si. For example with berkata,”Ibu knows is difficult likely otherwise gets does we wish. Ms. also often discontented and fulminated if mother didn't get what which mother wish”.
Tries calls away the attention chlid
Sometime there is chlid which is very difficult overcomes its(the tantrum. Old fellow interference even can make worse its(the enragement. If this happened, tries calls away the attention it by inviting it is doing game which stripper has not been done it, or sounds off happy songs of its(the favorite. Other way of which can be tried is humor for example
with mengatakan,”what also which you does, Cognition:
eruption of enragement of chlid ( runs amuck)
time is infected:
often happened in 4 chlid age first year
form of behaviour:
* weeps
* screams
* throws goods
* makes stiff body
* beats
* rolls about in floor
* do not want to bolt from certain place
becomes habit if chlid is knowing that by the way of that is its(the desire will be fulfilled
Temper Tantrum is formed in kondisional.
condition causing temper tantrum to become habit:
1. balita experiencing pain for so long
2. Un-consistency of old fellow in applying discipline at its(the children
3. position of old fellow is tending to criticizes and too fussy
4. Children experiencing backwardness of mental and experiencing resistance in development to speak at the time of they to fail lays open its(the intention at area.
Example of case:
child of becoming often angry because the mother always by forcing orders chlid to urinate when s(he is besotted played.
Enragement which initially arisings from chlid stopped from activity to play at it, finally changes over at situation to go to bathroom can get back up chlid.
Handling
1. avoids abundant demarcation to chlid freedom
2. avoids abundant claim
3. avoids vesting of external duty of chlid ability
4. doesn't act is arbitrary
5. not too holds firmly stiff and hard positions in mothering and educates chlid
6. acts consistency or ajeg, but remain to loving of darling: keajegan enables child of learning from its(the experiences. But this doesn't mean all something having to takes place routine without exemption.
Any way, exlusion of what which have been specified may just is done along the length of that thing required and is not done for the shake of following old fellow mood as of eye.
position of Old fellow when chlid is runing amuck:
calm
is not fished to fulminate
consistency and apprehensive
As possible disregards scene to run amuck tsb, so that child of realizing that s(he cannot obtain attention with the enragement. Chlid must learn that by runing amuck s(he will not get does s(he wish.
Doesn't once in a while tries argument with child of at the time of s(he on the rampage.
a few moments after fury ends or alleviates is when which good to telling that its way that is wrong and cannot be received. ** Above that is of all, it is important to know that, in certain limits, runs amuck is fair something happened at children.**
Faces Tantrum Small si
( 3 Determining First Year)
As a stripper, be better if you sees trend of tantrum at child of as healthy expression. But sometimes old fellow kewalahan faces Tantrum small si. Eliminates tantrum 100 % of course non work easy.
some minimization ways of enragement to of small si:
( Tries applies this way according to situation, and ensures that people who to assist you to take care of small si applies the same way with you)
Tries peace
Your Panicity faces tantrum small si menyulut its(the enragement will. Sees You cannot have a command over, chlid would be panic and difficult to control x'self also. Small si requires figure which can catching of calmness to control situation, because its(the limitation having a command over in this age. He also requires certainty that in situation anything you still loving it.
Keeps in mind its(the cause
Tries writes down in your agenda, is penyulut enragement of small si. Sometimes tantrum is caused [by] too chlid fatigue, peckish, or too much stimulation. If this cause of his(its, tries avoids this situation. Other possibility, tantrum small si only emerges if s(he is brought to supermarket. If it does, limits departure to supermarket with
brings small
Talks smoothly but settled
If You screamed hence small si will reciprocate with rallying call which more excitement. But if you can talk with smooth intonation but stable isotope, this thing will assist small si overcomes x'self. Sometimes because too smooth voiced which you to say, small si cannot hear. This thing exactly profits, because usually s(he will be kept quiet concentrates on does you say.
Removes desire to apply penalization of physical
Tantrum small si sometimes makes sulky old fellow, so that subconsciously old fellow brings to justice physical like beating or pinchs that small si kept quiet. This thing is forerunner that you also has flew off the handle x'self.
What asking for small si learnt controls x'self, if his own old fellow unable to control ownself?
Doesn't debate
Invites small si debated during its(the enragement bursting of no use. At the moment hopeable small si thought rational. Bes awaiting finite of s(he has can apply logic to think it returns, has just invited s(he to discuse.
Takes care of chlid from fatal possibility
Sometimes small si many using movement to beat or kicks. If this thing was not taken heed able to fatal of their/his self, or people in vinicity. Tries invites chlid to place which more safe, for example lulling s(he is in bed, or fastened safety rope if s(he to run amuck in its(the cart. Otherwise possibly,
tries to hold, or embraces it to avoid undesirable things. Besides preventing fatal possibility, by holding or embraces, small si feels you to assist it is uniting ‘ part '
from x'self which has ‘ asunders'. Tightly embrace also assists meluruhkan enragement, good for small si and also you.
Tunjukan empathy
Tunjukan that you understands feeling of small si. For example with berkata,”Ibu knows is difficult likely otherwise gets does we wish. Ms. also often discontented and fulminated if mother didn't get what which mother wish”.
Tries calls away the attention chlid
Sometime there is chlid which is very difficult overcomes its(the tantrum. Old fellow interference even can make worse its(the enragement. If this happened, tries calls away the attention it by inviting it is doing game which stripper has not been done it, or sounds off happy songs of its(the favorite. Other way of which can be tried is humor for example
with mengatakan,”Apa also which you does, ketawa doesn't!! Eh…, lho oppositely instead ketawa”.
Gives break time
If small si cannot control x'self for time sufficiently long, tried to give break time. For example, lets s(he to stand apart in its(the room;chamber is finite its(the enragement alleviates. But it is of course it all must be under observation of you. Ensures that s(he is safe resided in x'self in its(the room;chamber.
Didn't fear if do not alleviate
If You cannot assuage its(the tantrum, doesn't overanxious. Possibly s(he of course requires time to express its(the emotion. After s(he breathes again, hence all will soon ends.
Source: NAKITA
Gives break time
If small si cannot control x'self for time sufficiently long, tried to give break time. For example, lets s(he to stand apart in its(the room;chamber is finite its(the enragement alleviates. But it is of course it all must be under observation of you. Ensures that s(he is safe resided in x'self in its(the room;chamber.
Didn't fear if do not alleviate
If You cannot assuage its(the tantrum, doesn't overanxious. Possibly s(he of course requires time to express its(the emotion. After s(he breathes again, hence all will soon ends.
Source: NAKITA
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