Express Affection in the middle of Workdload
Children, especially balita, very requires attention of its(the parent, tries is just paid attention, if you are busy does something and like disregarding your balita, surely was just act of which s(he did to draw your attention. And, that usually is annoying mischief or deed, so that usually your dander also is fished.
If(when this process network always berulan, you are business, child of behaving, you fulminated, then returned to your workdload, is possibly felt by child of you? Not to mention if utterances that is impressing stamps exit from your mouth, like for example " naughty child bottom!", or " you this of course dibilangin cannot!". Utterance like that, besides not worth while because will not improve;repair chlid behaviour, also forms negative self-concept at chlid x'self. Chlid stamped is naughty can really naughty becoming because s(he to feel naughty child x'self and then instead will acquitt as according " label" which s(he receives.
Jalan best to overcome act of this balita is by giving does he is requiring. If s(he acted up, stops a moment your work and spares time to indicate that you pays attention to and loves it. Embraces s(he, invites speaking just, and tells clearly that you loves it. Then, explains to it you must finalize work, and will return to fiddles around with it if completed.
from :
Rachma, Bekasi
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